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    Month 12 Letter-Dec. 15-Jan. 15


    2014 - 01.31

    Dear Nadia,

    This month was your last month of “first” calendar days in your year. I hope that makes sense…I’m a little sleep deprived. Let’s try that again. You’ve now been in the world for a whole year, and have thus experienced all of the calendar days for the first time.

    Wait. Except Leap Year.

    Never mind.

    You’re growing like crazy! You love the world around you and the world loves you back. You’re an incredibly charming kid and like to wave at people. You are especially interested in younger kids and babies, but will smile for pretty much anyone.

    You have learned to climb up onto the couch and our Ikea chair. It’s a good thing Dad taught you how to get down as well, or else you’d be stuck! When you get down, you like to let us know by saying “go go go go go!” as you slide off the couch or bed, feet first. We aren’t sure exactly where you picked that up, because we don’t remember teaching it to you. Our best guess is that we often say “Where are you going?” or something along those lines, and you picked up “go!” from that.

    You don’t really seem to show a lot of interest in walking, although on your birthday you used a rolling walking toy for the first time. You will stand for a few seconds at a time, but I like to compare you to Wile E. Coyote. As soon as you realize you’re not being supported by anything, BOOM, down you go. :)

    You like to help us get you dressed, but only shirts. When we put one around you, you help by putting your arms through the sleeves, but you think it’s the funniest thing to crawl at top speed away from us when we’re trying to put pants or socks onto you.

    We’ve been doing a lot of signing to you, but you don’t seem super interested, unless you’re highly motivated. It took you less than a day of me signing “please” before you got any milk for you to start signing your version of it for us. You definitely understand cause and effect when it comes to milk!

    You’ve been trying all sorts of new food. Whenever Dad takes you to Costco, it’s almost always  “eat your way around the store” day! Sometimes you get extra lucky and it’s cheese sample day. Cheese is probably one of your favourite foods, except for your fruit and veggie pouches, crackers, grapes, pear, bread, beef, rice, chicken, oranges, peas…ok, I guess you don’t really have a FAVOURITE food. You’re a really healthy eater, and love pretty much all the food we’ve given you, although you will sometimes take a couple tries before you’re convinced.

    Avocado is still RIGHT out.

    You’ve still got 12 teeth, so only eight more to go. With all of the different foods you eat, you wouldn’t know that there were still some teeth that need to come in. We’re just waiting on your eye teeth (the pointy ones) and your second set of molars (which I’m really not looking forward to, on your behalf, and mine! You were pretty miserable with the first set that came in.)

    You had your first Christmas! It was really busy, and we got to see lots of people. We went to Oma and Grandad’s for Christmas Eve, Grandma and Grandpa for Christmas morning and both sides of cousins Christmas night. Unfortunately, we were both sick, but we still had a lot of fun. Because we felt so yucky, we didn’t have our Cowbel family Christmas until three or four days later!

    New Years Eve was a lot of fun as well! We went over to the Greer’s house and played board games. Well, the grownups played board games, and you tried to eat all the pieces, as well as the snacks. And Quinn’s toys. And the cat.

    The next special day was your Dad’s birthday. He turned very old. Much older than me. ;) You bought him a pretty delicious cake and a decoy bookmark with shiny beads on the tassel. That way, he can put it in his book away from his real, boring bookmark because you love to pull it out and lose his place. He’s currently reading a series where the books are hundreds and hundreds of pages, so it works better if he doesn’t have to search through them all to figure out where he left off.

    Your birthday was fantastic. We had Oma, Grandad, Grandma, Grandpa, Aunt Jen, Uncle Rob and Auntie Munira over for pizza and cupcakes. You had your own individual pizza and you LOVED it. Most kids would want just a cheese pizza or something really simple, but you had chicken, mushroom and black olives on yours. Yum! You also had a whole cupcake to yourself. You weren’t really sure about it at first, but once you figured out that it was food, and not just a toy (icing feels cool when it squishes), you were really happy. And pretty messy! We also planned another birthday party for the weekend after your actual birthday, but I’ll write about that in the next letter.

    I took the day off work so that we could spend your first birthday together. Best investment I’ve made for a long time.

    Love,
    Mum (to a one year old!!!!)

    Surviving Nadia’s Birthday Week


    2014 - 01.20

    Nadia is now one year old, which feels like quite the accomplishment as a parent.  There must have only been about an infinite number of opportunities for her to die in her first year, but she didn’t even come remotely close.  Bully for us.

    We didn’t put undue pressure on ourselves with her birthday, not trying to accomplish “the perfect” birthday and I think that worked really well for us.  We did a small family party on her actual birthday and then a larger everyone welcome party on the weekend.  Both events went smoothly and Nadia really seemed to enjoy herself.

    Month 11 Letter (Nov 15-Dec 15)


    2014 - 01.16

    Dear Nadia,

    This month you became quite the techno-kid. You’ve learned that the home button on iPhones and iPads usually do something interesting, so you like pushing it and seeing what happens. You also learned how to swipe open my iPhone, and before I set it to need a password immediately after locking, you managed to open up Groupon and you almost bought a scenic bus tour to Whistler. I knew you liked it up there, but I didn’t think that you wanted to go up there by yourself! After I set it so that it would immediately need a password, I thought I’d be safe. Nope. You managed to call Grandad using the voice recognition system. Apparently “gah dah!” is close enough to “call dad” to trick Siri.

    Your first four molars came in between November 29-December 8. You were pretty miserable…which for you meant that you only giggled and smiled every hour instead of every five minutes. You were a real trouper, and we were all VERY relieved when all those teeth finally made it in. Your timing was pretty great too, because I went back to work a few weeks early, and your last molar came in on the morning before I went back to work, so you weren’t up most of the night.

    So, yep. I went back to work. I’m in a really fun kindergarten class. It blows my mind that in four years you will be in kindergarten! AHHHH! I can’t think of that right now. I’m still getting over the fact that I’m writing your 11 month letter. Our schedule is pretty much like this: Dad brings you in to me when you wake up and we cuddle and nurse, then I get ready, give you a kiss goodbye and sneak out while you’re asleep. (the second day, you really wanted me to stay and got upset, then I got upset, then Dad drove us both to work so I could have a bit of extra snuggle time with you.) I go to school while Dad stays home and has Nadia-duty. He sends me lots of pictures through the day so I can follow your adventures while I’m not there. When I get home, you immediately crawl and climb so that you can see me coming up the stairs and start laughing and clapping. I love how excited you are to see me.

    On the night before you were born, it started snowing, and there was a little bit of snow on the ground when we left the hospital, but I think that was the last snowfall until this season. The day that I went back to work, it snowed, so Dad and I took you out in the front yard in your new snowsuit that Dad bought for you. You weren’t too impressed with it, especially since the snowsuit made things so slippery that you couldn’t really crawl. You fell forward into the snow and were very unhappy with this cold stuff on your face. I picked you up and let you taste some snow, but you didn’t like that either. Maybe you just aren’t old enough to like it yet. ;)

    We finished your swimming lessons and you can join a new level the next time we sign you up. You got pretty cold in that pool, so I think we’re going to try and find one that’s a bit warmer, at least until you are able to move around a bit more on your own.

    Dad and I took you to Gardenworks to pick out a Christmas tree, but you fell asleep in the car, so we just scouted it out and went back a week later with Grandma, Grandpa and Aunt Jen. You also went Christmas shopping with Oma and me one night.

    Overall, you had a really fun month and you’ve been a champion with all the changes that have been happening lately.

    Love,
    Mum